
The Money Habit Your Grandmother Knew…
How many times have you seen it? January rolls around, and suddenly everyone’s a financial guru. “New Year, New You!” they scream. “Double your savings in 30 days!” “Invest in this one weird trick and get rich!” Social media feeds explode with hashtags like #FinancialFreedom and #HustleHard. You get pumped. You make grand plans. Maybe you even scribble down some resolutions… only to find yourself by March feeling like you’ve run headfirst into a brick wall. Again.
Sound familiar? Yeah, thought so. It’s exhausting, isn’t it? Trying to keep up with trends that feel like they’re designed for someone else, somewhere else… feels like a different planet when you’re figuring out school fees, fluctuating business income, or just keeping the lights on. And the pressure! Good grief. If one more influencer tells you to “just wake up at 4 AM and hustle,” you might scream. What if the secret isn’t some dramatic, unsustainable overhaul? What if it’s something far simpler, far more…
What if slow and steady wins the money race? Stick with me. This isn’t about giving up; it’s about playing a smarter, more sustainable game with the cards you actually hold.
Why the Flashy Stuff Fails Us (Mostly)
Let’s cut through the noise. Those big, bold promises? The get-rich-quick schemes and drastic savings challenges? They’re often built on shaky ground. Think about it. They usually assume:
- A predictable, high income: Not always the reality here, where gig work, farming cycles, and informal trading dominate.
- Easy access to complex financial products: Cryptocurrency this, forex that… but what about understanding simple savings or managing daily cash flow reliably?
- Endless willpower: Expecting you to flip a switch and completely change decades of habit overnight? Come on. Life happens. Unexpected expenses pop up like stubborn weeds, a relative needs help, the fridge dies, school demands a new fee.
And the science backs this up! Remember that famous Stanford “Marshmallow Experiment” with kids? Offered one treat now or two later. The kids who waited tended to do better later in life. But guess what? Later studies showed it wasn’t just willpower. Kids from stable, resource-secure environments found it easier to wait.
If you’re constantly stressed about scarcity (like juggling bills or inconsistent income), focusing on distant future goals feels like a luxury you can’t afford. Big, sudden changes add more stress, making them almost doomed to fail. It’s not you; it’s the approach that’s broken.
“This isn’t just lab theory, it’s lived reality. Remember that quietly powerful scene in Atlanta (Season 3, “The Big Payback”)? Darius, ever the philosopher, tries to talk to Earn about the future, about building something lasting. Earn, drowning in the daily grind of survival, paying bills by the skin of his teeth, barely looks up. His exhausted reply? ‘Future me ain’t real right now.’ That line hits deep, doesn’t it?
It perfectly captures the paralysis of scarcity. When you’re Earn, hustling just to keep today’s lights on, grand plans for ‘future wealth’ feel like a cruel joke. Darius’s vision is a luxury Earn literally cannot afford to entertain. Big, sudden financial changes?
For someone in that headspace, they feel like adding a mountain to climb on top of the mountain you’re already struggling with. No wonder they crumble. Like Earn showed us, sometimes just making it through today takes everything you’ve got. The failure isn’t personal weakness; it’s trying to sprint when you’re already carrying too much weight.”
“Small-Small”
So what works? Small, consistent actions. Think of it like planting maize. You don’t throw all your seed down one hole expecting a magical giant stalk. You plant many seeds, spaced well, tend them regularly with what water you have, weed patiently. Harvest might not be instant, but it’s reliable and feeds you well.
This is where slow and steady wins the money race. It’s about focusing on what you can control, right now, with what you actually have. It’s sustainable. It’s less intimidating. And crucially, it builds momentum and confidence.
- The Magic of Tiny Habits: Instead of vowing to save half your salary (impossible for most!), start with what feels almost too easy. Saving 100 shillings/cedis/rands a day. Rounding up mobile money transactions and saving the difference. Putting aside the coins from your market sales every evening. Seems insignificant? Well, 100 shillings a day is 36,500 shillings a year. That’s school shoes, a crucial part of a business license fee, or a buffer for the lean season. Small drops do fill a bucket.
- Consistency Trumps Intensity: Saving a large lump sum once is great, but saving a small amount every single week builds a stronger habit and a more resilient safety net. It’s like building a wall, brick by brick, rather than trying to lift a whole boulder at once. You’re less likely to give up when life throws a curveball because the action itself is manageable.
- Small steps, big impact: Take Mama Amina in Nairobi. Running her small mitumba stall, income was unpredictable. She felt overwhelmed by savings apps and complex advice. So, she started simply: every time she sold an item for 500 shillings or more, she immediately put 50 shillings into a separate mobile money wallet before touching the rest. Some days, nothing. Other days, 200 or 300 shillings. Within a year? She’d saved enough to rent a slightly better stall location, increasing her foot traffic and income. No grand plan, just consistent, small action. Or consider Kofi in Accra, a teacher. He committed to cooking lunch at home just one extra day a week instead of buying out. The saving? Maybe 50 cedis a week. But over a school term? That funded his professional development course.
Building Your Own
Now, how do you actually do this? Ditch the complex spreadsheets and confusing jargon. Focus on simple, actionable steps rooted in your reality:
- Know Your Flow (Roughly!): You don’t need a forensic audit. Just spend a week or two jotting down where your money actually goes. Not every single coin, but the big streams: market money, transport, airtime/data, contributions, small chops money. Awareness is the first, crucial step. You might be surprised where those “small-small” leaks are happening.
- Start Ridiculously Small with Saving: Pick an amount so small it feels impossible not to save. Seriously. 20 Naira. 5 Rand. 100 Ugandan Shillings. Do it daily or weekly. Use a locked box, a specific mobile money wallet (many apps let you create “savings pockets”), or even a trusted “susu” collector. The goal isn’t the amount yet; it’s building the muscle memory of saving.
- Spend Strategically: E.g Airtime & Data. This is a major leak for many! Instead of big weekly bundles you might not fully use:
- Try daily or smaller, targeted bundles.
- Use Wi-Fi whenever possible.
- Set a small weekly budget for “impulse” airtime/data top-ups and stick to it. That saving adds up fast!
4. The Power of “Before You Spend”: Got a windfall? A bonus, a good market day, a birthday gift? Before you even think about spending it, put a tiny portion aside. Even 5% or 10%. Automate this if your mobile money or bank allows a small auto-transfer on deposit. Pay yourself first, small-small.
5. Leverage Community Strength: Remember the power of “esusu” or “ajo” or “chama”? The principle is timeless. Join or start a small, trusted savings group with a clear, achievable goal (like buying a shared asset, funding school fees, or building individual emergency funds). The group commitment provides accountability and makes saving feel less lonely. Apps like Bear Financials can even help digitize this, making tracking contributions simple and transparent without the hassle of physical meetings or record-keeping.
6. Focus on Earning Increments Too: Slow and steady applies to income. Can you add one small service to your existing business? Offer simple tailoring adjustments if you sell clothes? Bundle vegetables nicely for busy workers? Learn one new, quick digital skill online (free resources abound!) to offer freelance services? Small income boosts, consistently pursued, compound just like savings.
Why Slow and Steady Wins …
You might be wondering, “But won’t this take forever?” Maybe. But compare it to the alternative: constantly starting and stopping dramatic plans, feeling like a failure, and getting nowhere? Slow and steady wins the money race because it actually works in the real world. It reduces stress because it’s manageable. It builds genuine confidence with each small win. It creates habits that become automatic, like brushing your teeth. And crucially, it respects the realities of life the fluctuations, the communal obligations, the need for resilience.
Think compound interest, but for habits and peace of mind. That tiny daily saving? It adds up. The small reduction in impulse airtime buys? It adds up. The one extra home-cooked meal a week? It adds up. The slightly better stall location saved for by consistent action? It leads to more income, which fuels more saving and investment. It’s a virtuous cycle, built on a foundation you can actually sustain. Just consistent, deliberate action. That’s how real wealth, wealth that lasts, wealth that provides security and options is truly built.
FAQs
- Isn’t “slow and steady” just an excuse for not trying hard enough?
Not at all! It’s about being strategic and realistic. Trying “hard” with an unsustainable plan that fails repeatedly is demoralizing and ineffective. Slow and steady requires consistent discipline, showing up every day, even with small actions, which is often harder than a short burst of unsustainable effort. It’s working smarter, not just harder, for lasting results. - What if I have a big, urgent financial goal (like school fees next term)? Can slow and steady help?
Absolutely! Break that big goal down. How much do you need total? How many weeks/months do you have? Divide the total by the number of weeks. That’s your minimum weekly target. Now, look at your “Know Your Flow” step. Where can you realistically find some of that amount each week? Can you combine your small savings habit with a temporary extra effort (like selling some items, taking on a small gig)? Slow and steady provides the baseline habit; you can often ramp it up temporarily for specific goals without abandoning the core principle. - I have irregular income (farming, casual work, trading). How can I be “steady”?
This is where the principle matters more than rigid weekly amounts. Focus on percentages or rules of thumb. For example: “Whenever I receive money, I save 5% before anything else.” Or, “I save half of any ‘surprise’ money (windfalls, extra sales).” During peak season, save more aggressively. During lean times, focus on maintaining your tiny habit (even if it’s just 50 shillings). The key is the habit of saving something, consistently, relative to your inflow, not a fixed amount impossible in lean times.
Over to you …
Forget the January fireworks and the December desperation. Forget the pressure to follow trends that don’t fit your life or your pocket. That noise? It’s mostly distraction. The real path to financial breathing room, security, and yes, even growth, isn’t paved with dramatic gestures and complicated jargon. It’s built on the quiet, consistent power of doing what you can, with what you have, right where you are.
Slow and steady wins the money race. It’s the wisdom of our grandmothers saving coins in a locked box. It’s the trader setting aside a few notes from each sale. It’s the farmer storing a portion of the harvest. It’s practical, it’s resilient, and it works. It’s about progress, not perfection. It’s about building a financial life that bends with the winds of our reality, rather than shattering under the pressure of impossible expectations.
Start small. Start today. Not with a bang, but with a whisper. Put aside that first 20 Naira. Notice where your 100 shillings goes. Cook one extra meal. Join that trustworthy savings group. Use tools like Bear Financials to make tracking these small wins effortless. Celebrate the consistency, not just the big sums. Because every single small step is a brick in the foundation of a more secure, more confident future. You’ve got this. One small, steady step at a time. Now go build your race, your way.