Our Environment is the Invisible Hand That Shapes Our Human Behaviour

How many times have you sworn you’ll start saving more, only to find your account looking thin by month-end? You beat yourself up, call it a lack of willpower, maybe even promise to try harder next time. Well...  It might not be you. Not entirely, anyway.

We like to think we’re the captains of our own ships, making logical, conscious decisions all the time. But beneath the surface, there’s a silent partner, a puppeteer pulling strings we don’t even see. It’s the world around us, the shops you pass, the ads on your phone, the layout of your kitchen, even the friends you have a drink with on Friday. This isn't some mystical force; it's the cold, hard reality of how we're wired. Especially when it comes to our money. And once you understand that, you can stop fighting yourself and start designing a life that automatically works for you, not against you.

How Your Surroundings Are Playing You

Think about the last time you walked into a supermarket for just milk and bread. How did that work out for you? You probably left with a basket full of things you never planned to buy. The smell of freshly baked bread right at the entrance? That’s no accident. The essentials like milk are always at the very back, forcing you to walk through a maze of tempting offers. The catchy music? Scientifically proven to slow you down, making you browse more.

This isn’t just smart business. It’s a masterclass in environmental design. These stores are meticulously engineered to trigger specific behaviours: impulse buying, spending more time (and money) inside, and choosing higher-margin items. And it works like a charm. We walk in thinking we’re in control, but the environment has already decided we’re going to spend more.

Now, zoom out. Your entire financial life is like one big supermarket. The apps on your phone, the billboards on your commute, the “buy now, pay later” option at every online checkout, they’re all designed to make spending effortless and saving feel like a chore.

Why Trying Harder is a Losing Battle

We’ve been sold a lie. The lie is that financial success is purely a product of discipline and iron-clad willpower. We see someone doing well and think, “Wow, they’re so strong-willed.” Meanwhile, we feel guilty for ordering takeaway again instead of cooking.

But here’s the thing: willpower is a finite resource. It’s like a muscle that gets tired. After a long day of making decisions at work, dealing with traffic, and managing life’s stresses, that muscle is exhausted. So when you’re scrolling on your phone late at night and a targeted ad for those shiny new shoes pops up, your tired willpower doesn’t stand a chance. The environment wins. Again.

A famous study, often called the “Radish Experiment,” perfectly illustrates this. Researchers put hungry students in a room with two plates: one with freshly baked chocolate cookies and another with radishes. One group was told to eat the cookies and ignore the radishes. Another was told to eat the radishes and resist the cookies. Later, both groups were given a frustrating puzzle to solve. The cookie-eaters, with their willpower intact, persevered for ages. The radish-eaters, who had exhausted their willpower resisting the cookies, gave up almost immediately.

Moral of the story? You can’t rely on constantly resisting temptation. It’s a draining, unsustainable strategy. The smarter move is to change your environment so you don’t need to use so much willpower in the first place.

Designing Your World for Success

So if our environment is so powerful, how do we turn the tables? How do we make this invisible hand work for us instead of against us? It’s all about intentional design. You become the architect of your own life.

Let’s break it down with some real, practical examples.

1. Automate Your Way to Wealth.
This is the environmental hack. You’re removing the need for a decision altogether. The moment your paycheck hits your account, set up an automatic transfer to move a chunk of it into a savings or investment account you don’t see every day. Out of sight, out of mind. Before you even have a chance to think about spending it, it’s already safe. It’s like building a moat around your money. You’re not resisting the urge to spend; you’re making the urge impossible to act on.

2. Make Bad Habits Difficult.
Unsubscribe from all those promotional emails! Seriously, do it right now. Every “50% OFF SALE!!!” email is a tiny environmental trigger designed to separate you from your money. Delete food delivery apps from your phone. If you really want a pizza, you can log in on a browser. That extra bit of friction gives your brain a moment to ask, “Do I really need this?” Often, the answer will be no.

3. Curate Your Social Circle.
You might be wondering, “What do my friends have to do with it?” Everything. We are deeply social creatures, and we unconsciously mimic the behaviours of those around us. If your entire social life revolves around expensive brunches, designer clothes, and fancy holidays, sticking to a budget will feel like swimming against a tidal wave. This doesn’t mean ditching your friends! But it does mean being aware of the pressure. Maybe you suggest a potluck dinner instead of a restaurant. Or a hiking trip instead of a weekend getaway. Surround yourself with people who have healthy money habits, and you’ll find yours improving without even trying.

4. Design Your Physical Space.
Keep a water bottle on your desk. You’ll drink more water and fewer sugary, store-bought drinks. Meal prep on a Sunday and have healthy food visible in the fridge. You’ll be less likely to order in. Even something as simple as putting your gym clothes right next to your bed the night before makes you infinitely more likely to actually work out in the morning. Reduce the friction for good behaviours.

More Than an App

This is where the philosophy behind something like Bear Financials comes in. We get it. Most budgeting apps feel like a stern school teacher, scolding you for every little misstep. They rely on you to do all the work, to have all the willpower.

But we see it differently. We built Bear Financials not as a digital nag, but as a tool to help you redesign your financial environment. It’s about creating a system that automatically guides you toward better choices.

Think of it like this:

  • Instead of forcing you to manually track every single biscuit you buy, we help you set up that “set-and-forget” automation.

  • Instead of just showing you charts of where your money went, we send you gentle, timely nudges before you spend, helping you see the triggers in your environment.

  • It’s about building a habitat where saving feels natural and mindless spending feels foreign.

It’s not about counting every penny; it’s about creating a world where your pennies count for you, automatically.That's how we help create a condusive environment for your overall success.

You May Ask ...

1. This sounds like I'm just making excuses for my bad habits?
It’s the opposite! Understanding your environment isn’t about making excuses; it’s about understanding the real battlefield. Blaming a lack of willpower is like a farmer blaming himself for a poor harvest instead of checking the soil quality. This approach is about fixing the soil, your environment, so that good habits can grow naturally and easily.

2. I live in a busy city with ads and temptations everywhere. How can I possibly change that?
You’re right, you can’t change the whole city. But you can change your immediate micro-environments: your phone, your home, your car, your social media feeds. Focus on what you can control. Unfollow brands that trigger impulse buys on Instagram. Take a different route to work that doesn’t pass your favourite but expensive coffee shop. Small, deliberate changes to your daily pathways add up to a huge difference.

3. Isn't this just for spending? How does it affect making more money?
The principle works both ways! Your environment shapes your earning potential too. If you surround yourself with ambitious, entrepreneurial people, you’re more likely to think of business ideas. If you create a dedicated, quiet workspace at home, you’re more likely to focus on a side hustle. If you listen to podcasts about investing during your commute instead of just music, you’re passively building knowledge. The environment you build either nudges you towards growth or keeps you stagnant.

Over to you

So, the next time you find yourself reaching for your wallet for something you didn’t plan, take a second. Look around. Ask yourself, “What in my environment led me here?” Was it a notification? A cleverly placed product? A friend’s suggestion? Just noticing it is the first step to taking back control.

Stop the cycle of guilt and self-blame. You’re not weak. You’re human, navigating a world that’s been expertly designed to make you consume. The power isn’t in fighting your nature; it’s in shaping your surroundings. Design your space, automate your finances, and choose your influences wisely. Make the invisible hand a gentle guide towards security and peace of mind, and watch how your behaviour and your life starts to change all on its own.

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